thoughts on the news of the day: funerals

hmmm…..

            When Michael Jackson’s memorial service was held as a media event, I sort of cringed inside. Even after the service held for the victims of the shooting in Tucson, remarks were made about the political rally atmosphere of the event.  We have webcast seminars, weddings and even birthday parties, but funerals?  I’m not so sure about it, but the news for today is that the funeral industry is now offering web cam services for those who can’t attend the actual event. 

            On the one hand, if the technology is available, why not?  My 90 year old father is no longer able to travel long distances, so as his siblings and close relatives and friends pass on, he won’t be able to attend their services.  Would it be so bad if he were able to view a funeral from the comfort of his own home?

            Maybe not.  But what if it becomes the habit of many to gawk from afar at those grieving during a service to satisfy their own needs?  That is the danger.  Memorial services and funerals allow attendees to gather together to celebrate the life and mourn the loss of their loved one.  Feeling the support of those surrounding us as we said goodbye to Mom could never have been replaced by a camera.  Yes, it was an effort for many from a distance to attend, but it honored my Mom and it touched our hearts at a difficult time.

            I’m not sure how I feel about funeral services being broadcast, but I know that when I walk through the death of a loved one, I want you there.

            hmmm…..