hmmm…..
What goes around comes around …. That’s pretty much what Charlie Sheen is learning. You may recall that Sheen spent a few months going on a rant about all kinds of crazy stuff. He claimed he was “winning” when clearly he wasn’t. He was out of control.
But now his behavior has come full circle. On Jay Leno’s show last night he said he was “pretty much losing” not winning. He said that he would have fired himself from “Two and a Half Men” if it had been his decision. He seemed contrite – sorry for all the trouble he had caused.
We tend to reap what we sow. Consequences have to be faced for our behavior. We want to blame circumstance, situations or people for the trouble that befalls us. But really, it’s our own bad behavior that gets us in such messes. Sometimes it’s a while before it catches up with us. We repeatedly fail in our responsibility in a relationship and one day the relationship is gone. We ask what happened when really what happened started long ago.
But good consequences can happen from good actions, too. “What goes around comes around” fits our situations for positive outcomes also. We study hard and the degree comes around. We watch what we eat and slowly the weight comes off.
Mostly it boils down to paying attention. When things begin to get out of control, we assess our part in the situation. If we can change the circumstances, we do want we can to make them better. And when good things happen, we try to keep doing what we have been doing all along in the hopes that the good will continue. And in all of it, we grow.
hmmm…..
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